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Serving at Christmas time…..

This year was quite a different year for our family. My heart was full this year to do service where it is needed. I really want my boys to learn that serving others is so much better than getting service(presents). We did two days of service.

Christmas Eve we took all the toys, crafts, and games to the Children’s Hospital in Dallas. Boy did we get a lot of donations……

I am so grateful for the outpouring gifts everyone donated. I am so glad I finally acted on my heart. Sometimes it is so scary to take that jump and do something new, but when it is all done it feels so good to look back and say “I did it!”.
Now we weren’t able to see any of the children due to germs, but we did get to see the train exhibit. The kids loved it! Cameron thought it was the coolest thing.

Then on our way to the cafeteria, to get some food and a drink, I ran into the Director of Child/Life Specialist, Renee. It was so neat to talk to someone that actually works with these children. Renee said she saw all we brought and was so excited. They rely on the donations. I guess they don’t get a lot of money for all the extras that these kids need. Renee also knew my cancer. I told her my story, well a brief synopsis that is, and how I knew how some of these children feel. I wanted to give back somehow. Maybe it helps me feel needed or it gives me that reason of why I was saved. All I know is that I was on the highest of highs Christmas Eve. Renee gave me her card so now I have a direct contact. I am going to keep collecting stuff all year long and when I get a load of donations, I will take them.

After the hospital we celebrated Christmas Eve with the Steven’s Family. They were awesome! They have the same tradition that we have with opening pj’s on Christmas Eve. They also open one more present, so we joined in and let the kids open one. The kids all had fun playing together. Amy brought this domino game called “The Mexican Train, or Chicken Foot”. I was hooked:) We all played until 10:30pm! Time goes by fast when you are having fun:) After Christmas Randy had to go and find the game so we can play again. I love him:)

Christmas morning was fabulous. We got up early to open presents and then we left to deliver Meals on Wheels to the elderly. We teamed up with a family in our ward, the Duckwall’s, and set off the a scary part of Dallas to deliver. I was nervous but I felt safe having Randy and Lew to protect us if needed. We never needed it though. The people we delivered to were so happy to see us. We sang a Christmas song to them and handed them their meal. They got this little TV dinner like meal with a little milk, a biscuit, and a little piece of pie. The kids were all sad to see how little they get. We had to explain that that is all they live on. They don’t know any difference. It was really a neat experience for our boys to see. We delivered the meals to 10 family’s. When we were done the boys were mad. They wanted to do more. I think they caught onto the serving spirit.

When we got home we had about an hour to play with our new stuff and then we headed to the Martini’s house for dinner. This family is like family to us. My twin sister is a Martini; therefore we have to be related somehow right?! My sisters husband and Heidi’s husband are cousins. That means Heidi’s kids are our kids second cousins by marriage?! It sounds complicated, but I have to say that it all doesn’t matter. We just say that we are cousins:) We are all brothers and sisters anyways right? The kids had fun playing, but they couldn’t wait to come home and play with their DS.

I had such a great holiday season. I couldn’t of asked for anything better. The smiles on every ones faces this year was all I needed. There was a Rabbi that said: “Don’t give a present, just be a present in somebody’s life”. What a quote. It is my hope and prayer that I can live my life being a present. I know that I am a miracle in some life’s eyes, but in mine I know I am blessed by our Father in Heaven. I got a second chance at life and I hope to live it to the fullest. I have learned not to hold grudges, get mad easily, smile more, and more important I have learned to love my family everyday. I don’t leave the house without giving them a hug and saying I love you to them. Life is so short. It isn’t worth being upset at anyone or anything.

Thank you to all my friends out there that have been there for me. Especially thank you to a friend here that is always listening to me. She has been there through all of this and she still is there for me. I didn’t realize how much she has done for me. I have started remembering more of the past when I was really sick and all she has done for me. All I can say is “Thank You”

Happy New Year!
~Becca:)

Comments

Shawn Sabrina Martini

I remember the train! Dad and I would go take a walk while you were in the hospital when it all began 2 years ago. You know Dad, he loved to watch the train. He thought it was really cool. I am glad to have seen it again! I am glad you had a good Christmas.I still wish you were here. I am glad you stayed and saw the people you did! If only we all can do more service huh? I know I need to work on it.

Sabrina

Beth and Shae

What a wonderful Christmas you had! You are amazing and I love your strength and optimism. I didn’t get it together enough to send you my donation, so I am glad you will be collecting all year. That gives me time to get to it. Love you!

JenJen

You are so blessed to have so many friends and such a nice family! I’m glad y’all had a great Christmas!

Lisa

Wow, what a wonderful way to celebrate our Savior’s birth. Service is truly an act of love and aren’t we commanded to love one another? You guys are teaching those boys some pretty powerful things that will truly build their character and mold them into the men they need to be. Keep up the great work!
I love you all,
Aunt Lisa 😀

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